Growing up, explained
What’s happening at 12
Her world may be getting louder.
How old is she?
4 things worth knowing about growing up at 12
Research-informed insights into what she may be experiencing, and why.
Possibilities, not a checklist. Every girl grows at her own pace.
Why she feels like everyone noticed
Why being looked at can feel so intense.
Read more →Why a "like" can feel like a verdict
What social feedback and reactions can mean to her.
Read more →When going along feels easier than choosing
Why going along can feel easier than disagreeing.
Read more →The "mean girls" myth
What the research actually says about girls and exclusion.
Read more →
For the grown-ups in her corner
She's growing up. We'll help you keep up.
Research-informed ideas and conversation starters for her age, delivered when we have something useful to share. Age 12 is already selected.